Foolish Yet Happy

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Are you HAPPY? If you think, YES; that's awesome, especially today! Keep it up. And, if you think, NOT; that’s common nowadays! But, why should you settle yourself with something unhappy when you have options for something happy in life? Let me ask: why are you UNHAPPY? There are some reasons for that, for sure: cognitive, emotional, interpersonal, professional or any other. Find them and fix them out at the earliest. Some of your causes of unhappy living can be correctible and solvable; but some are out of your control and rectification. If resolvable, do it fast for a happy life ahead. If unresolvable, learn to forgive, forget, ignore, and get along with them as if you are unaffected by them.

You must be thinking that I am impractical by suggesting you to be unaffected with something real and felt in your life. Yes, I am impractical and idiotic to keep you happy anyway. Because I am helpless here to suggest something concrete to avoid your unhappiness. And, that’s why I rely on something fancifully crafty and tricky to get you out of your unhappy situation anyhow . Therefore, I suggest you to stay a little silly and foolish to be impractical and imaginative to forgive, forget, ignore, or get along with your unavoidable or uncorrectable unhappiness in life. So that you can create an imaginary world of happiness to make yourself happy in living.

Some of the causes of your unhappiness can be forgivable though you are still suffering their implications to tarnish your quality of happiness. Someone who committed something wrong against you in the past in an unforgivable manner, and the person is dead already. What is the meaning in keeping the act in mind unforgivably? Just forgive them for a happier living for yourself. And, such a step can alleviate the severity of your suffering to decrease the intensity of your unhappiness. You may live as if unaffected of them. Until you forgive, you will be haunted by their malicious energy in your thoughts and actions.

Some of your reasons of unhappiness can be forgettable to live like unaffected of them. If not, their noxious effect can be felt in your future affairs. For example, you had a very bad childhood because of a drunken father. Now, you are grown up already and keeping memories of your unpleasant past which you can not recreate anyway is irrationally harmful for your future life. Why should we carry something negative which you can not change throughout your lifetime to dwindle the beauty of your living. Just forget them and live like unaffected of them too.

Some of your aspects of unhappiness which can be ignored if you are unable to control them the way you wish to do. Some of the unpleasant aspects in your really loving partner which is unable to solve must be ignored for a happy living together. We all have such aspects which may not please everybody. Just ignore such things in relationships for a comfortable coexistence.

We need to learn to get along with many unwanted and unappealing elements for us when we are living in a social system. There are other people and other things involved in this world other than us. We can not make this world ideal for us for our happy living. If someone else or something else cause our unhappiness, remember that we or our things cause the same for others in some or the other ways. Hence, learn to get along with them for a happy living ahead.

The stark reality about your life is that you have to live your life while you are alive until you die. Do it happily by hook or crook without hurting or harming anybody else. Because, your imaginations and fantasies will never hurt or harm anyone else; you only know that they are unreal and impractical. Still, you will enjoy their results dearly. Hence, I suggest you to live with them for a happy life ahead regardless of what others fancy or imagine about what you are doing for yourself. For, your happiness is your highest priority especially when most of others around you are unhappy today.


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