SINOJ JACOB

Before we begin, let me explain two important terms used in this piece of writing. The first one is MEMORIES and the second one is MEMORABLES. The term ‘memories’ refers to all that we remember from the happenings of the past and the term ‘memorables’ refers to all that we will remember from the happenings of the future. Living in the present simply means examining the past memories (beautiful and melancholic) and expecting the future memorables (hopeful and anxious). All that we think and do today are either reactions to the past memories or preparations for the future memorables. Thus, life becomes incessant consideration of the memories and ceaseless arrangements for the memorables. Memories are lessons and inspirations for memorables. Memories and memorables go hand in hand with close mutuality and affinity. The quality of our past memories reflects on the quality of our future memorables. If we have more beautiful memories in the past we tend to have more beautiful memorables for ...

Are you HAPPY? If you think, YES; that's awesome, especially today! Keep it up. And, if you think, NOT; that’s common nowadays! But, why should you settle yourself with something unhappy when you have options for something happy in life? Let me ask: why are you UNHAPPY? There are some reasons for that, for sure: cognitive, emotional, interpersonal, professional or any other. Find them and fix them out at the earliest. Some of your causes of unhappy living can be correctible and solvable; but some are out of your control and rectification. If resolvable, do it fast for a happy life ahead. If unresolvable, learn to forgive, forget, ignore, and get along with them as if you are unaffected by them. You must be thinking that I am impractical by suggesting you to be unaffected with something real and felt in your life. Yes, I am impractical and idiotic to keep you happy anyway. Because I am helpless here to suggest something concrete to avoid your unhappiness. And, that’s why I rely on s...